N\u00ebse problemet n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb grumbullohen dhe ndiheni sikur partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar, mbase jeni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto pes\u00eb gabime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shum\u00eb kritika<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sipas shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebve, dialog\u00ebt mes \u00e7ifteve duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb 80% komente pozitive ose neutrale dhe vet\u00ebm 20% kritika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb shum\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, situata dhe p\u00ebrqindjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta. Nj\u00eb partner thuajse vazhdimisht i shpreh ankesat dhe pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij tjetrit, i cili m\u00eb pas fillon t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb se nuk po b\u00ebn asgj\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet dhe t\u00ebrhiqet emocionalisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur n\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe grindje gjithmon\u00eb \u201cfitohet\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse argumentet kan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin fitues, at\u00ebher\u00eb ndoshta ka nj\u00eb problem diku. Pra, personi q\u00eb del \u201ci humbur\u201d n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha konfliktet, edhe n\u00ebse ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe q\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb aq mir\u00eb mendimet dhe ndjenjat e tij, ka gjasa t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqet nga lidhja. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs ai e konsideron t\u00eb kot\u00eb t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb diskutime dhe t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimet e tij, ndaj heq dor\u00eb nga \u00e7do p\u00ebrpjekje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A \u00ebsht\u00eb partneri juaj jo mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Imagjinoni t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb po ju shkakton ankth ose dhimbje emocionale dhe partneri\/partnerja juaj nuk po ju tregon mir\u00ebkuptimin ose mb\u00ebshtetjen q\u00eb ju nevojitet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Si do t\u00eb ndiheshit dhe cili do t\u00eb ishte reagimi juaj? Natyrisht ne presim q\u00eb partneri yn\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb personi tek i cili mb\u00ebshtetemi p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet q\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb. Pra, kur ai person vazhdimisht d\u00ebshton ose (madje m\u00eb keq) nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb na mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht normale t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb diku tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmbushje emocionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A i injoron ankesat tuaja?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A i keni shprehur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb ankesa partnerit tuaj dhe keni ndjer\u00eb se ai ju injoron vazhdimisht? \u00cbsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni ndjer\u00eb i\/e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore, madje edhe i\/e refuzuar. Ju nuk do t\u2019i shprehni ankesat tuaja p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, por do t\u00eb ndaleni kur t\u00eb ndjeni se jeni refuzuar dhe l\u00ebnduar aq shum\u00eb sa nuk keni forc\u00eb t\u00eb provoni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb d\u00ebmi \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kontributi i teknologjis\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Shum\u00eb prej nesh jan\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb varur nga celular\u00ebt dhe ekranet dhe u kushtojm\u00eb atyre m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se sa partnerit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pra, kur vazhdimisht shikojm\u00eb pajisjet digjitale ose i p\u00ebrdorim ato gjat\u00eb momenteve q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i ndajm\u00eb vet\u00ebm me partnerin ton\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb efekt jasht\u00ebzakonisht negativ n\u00eb disponimin, lumturin\u00eb dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies s\u00eb partnerit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00ebse problemet n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb grumbullohen dhe ndiheni sikur partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar, mbase jeni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto pes\u00eb gabime. Shum\u00eb kritika Sipas shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebve, dialog\u00ebt mes \u00e7ifteve duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb 80% komente pozitive ose neutrale dhe vet\u00ebm 20% kritika. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb shum\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, situata dhe p\u00ebrqindjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta. Nj\u00eb partner thuajse […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14164,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-14163","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n