\u00c7do njeri bie n\u00eb dashuri n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme, e madje njer\u00ebzit nuk e kuptojn\u00eb momentin kur bien n\u00eb dashuri.
Gjithsesi testet psikologjike jan\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga vetja dhe t\u00eb njohim m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga nd\u00ebrgjegjja jon\u00eb.
M\u00eb posht\u00eb ne do iu paraqesim nj\u00eb test, i cili do t\u2019iu tregoj\u00eb se si e perceptoni ju dashurin\u00eb dhe se si bini n\u00eb dashuri (pra menj\u00ebher\u00eb apo merrni koh\u00ebn tuaj).
Mjafton t\u00eb lexonoi fragmentet e m\u00ebposhtme dhe t\u2019u jepni p\u00ebrgjigje pyetjeve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pyetja 1
Z\u00ebreni sikur jeni nisur drejt sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb partnerin tuaj dhe ka dy m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur atje.
Nj\u00ebra \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on atje shpejt, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e zakonshme dhe e m\u00ebrzitshme. Tjetra \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo me shum\u00eb kthesa dhe plot atraksione gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, por ju jeni pak von\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e t\u00eb dashurit.
Cil\u00ebn rrug\u00eb zgjidhni? T\u00eb gjat\u00ebn apo t\u00eb shkurtr\u00ebn?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pyetja 2
N\u00eb rrug\u00eb shihni dy shkurre tr\u00ebndafili. Nj\u00ebra \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbushur me tr\u00ebndafila t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe tjetra me tr\u00ebndafila t\u00eb kuq. Ju vendosni t\u00eb merrni 20 tr\u00ebndafila p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj.
\u00c7far\u00eb kombinimi ngjyrash do t\u00eb zgjidhni? Sh\u00ebnim: \u00c7do kombinim \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse nj\u00eb tr\u00ebndafil \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb dhe pjesa tjet\u00ebr nj\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pyetja 3
M\u00eb n\u00eb fund mb\u00ebrrini n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e t\u00eb dashurit\/t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs suaj. Ti i bie ziles dhe sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtorja p\u00ebrgjigjet. Mund t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni q\u00eb t\u2019i thot\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit\/t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs suaj q\u00eb t\u00eb zbres\u00eb, ose mund t\u00eb shkoni ta merrni vet\u00eb.
\u00c7far\u00eb veprimi ndiqni? E pyet sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtoren apo shkon vet\u00eb?
Pyetja 4
Tani ngjituni n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e shokut tuaj dhe askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aty. Tr\u00ebndafilat mund t\u2019i lini n\u00eb dritare ose n\u00eb shtrat.
Ku i vendosni tr\u00ebndafilat? N\u00eb krevat apo n\u00eb dritare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pyetja 5
M\u00eb von\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur. Ju dhe i dashuri juaj shkoni t\u00eb flini n\u00eb dhoma t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Ju zgjoheni n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes dhe shkoni n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e shokut tuaj p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb. Ju hyni n\u00eb dhom\u00eb:
A \u00ebsht\u00eb ai\/ajo zgjuar apo n\u00eb gjum\u00eb?
Pyetja 6
\u00cbsht\u00eb koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi tani, dhe ju filloni t\u00eb ecni prapa. Mund t\u00eb merrni dy rrug\u00eb: at\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshmen, t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshmen q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on shpejt n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ose at\u00eb dredha-dredha, plot atraksione q\u00eb shkon me lejen tuaj.
Cil\u00ebn rrug\u00eb zgjidhni? E shkurtra apo e gjata?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Interpretimi i p\u00ebrgjigjeve:
1. Rrug\u00ebt p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb q\u00ebndrimin tuaj n\u00eb dashuri. N\u00ebse zgjodh\u00ebt t\u00eb shkurtr\u00ebn, dashurohesh shpejt dhe leht\u00eb. N\u00ebse zgjodh\u00ebt t\u00eb gjat\u00ebn, e merrni ngadal\u00eb dhe nuk dashuroheni leht\u00eb.
2. Numri i tr\u00ebndafilave t\u00eb kuq p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson sa shum\u00eb jepni n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje. Numri i luleve t\u00eb bardha p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson sa shum\u00eb prisni t\u00eb merrni nga nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Pra, n\u00ebse dikush zgjodhi t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb kuqe dhe nj\u00eb t\u00eb bardh\u00eb, ai ose ajo po i jep 90% nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje dhe pret t\u00eb marr\u00eb vet\u00ebm 10%.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Kjo pyetje tregon se si i p\u00ebrballoni problemet n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. N\u00ebse i k\u00ebrkuat sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtores q\u00eb t\u00eb sillte t\u00eb dashurin tuaj, at\u00ebher\u00eb po fshiheni nga problemet dhe ndoshta po k\u00ebrkoni nga dikush tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyj\u00eb. N\u00ebse keni shkuar dhe keni marr\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u00eb dashurin tuaj, at\u00ebher\u00eb jeni mjaft t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. N\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb problem, merreni me t\u00eb. Ju d\u00ebshironi ta luftoni at\u00eb kok\u00eb m\u00eb kok\u00eb.
4. Vendi ku vendosni lulet tregon se sa shpesh d\u00ebshironi ta shihni partnerin tuaj. Vendosja e luleve n\u00eb shtrat: Ju keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb siguri n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironit ta shihni partnerin tuaj \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur. Vendosja e tr\u00ebndafilave n\u00eb dritare tregon: Q\u00eb nuk prisni ta shihni shpesh partnerin tuaj, ta shihni at\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Gjeni partnerin duke fjetur: Ju e pranoni njeriun tuaj ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb. Gjeni partnerin zgjuar: Jeni duke pritur q\u00eb partneri juaj t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c7do njeri bie n\u00eb dashuri n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme, e madje njer\u00ebzit nuk e kuptojn\u00eb momentin kur bien n\u00eb dashuri.Gjithsesi testet psikologjike jan\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga vetja dhe t\u00eb njohim m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga nd\u00ebrgjegjja jon\u00eb. M\u00eb posht\u00eb ne do iu paraqesim nj\u00eb test, i cili do t\u2019iu tregoj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":30124,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-30125","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n