Vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimi i ul\u00ebt e pengon nj\u00eb person t\u00eb gjykoj\u00eb objektivisht njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth tij. Ky fenomen quhet projeksion negativ dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm mbrojt\u00ebs me t\u00eb cilin ia atribuojm\u00eb t\u00eb metat dhe dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tona njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha tiparet, emocionet dhe rrethanat tona negative, ne ia atribuojm\u00eb ato njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebrreth nesh, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Ne mbrohemi me sistemin e projeksionit negativ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr qafe k\u00ebt\u00eb zakon, duhet t\u00eb punojm\u00eb p\u00ebr vet\u00eb-zhvillim dhe t\u00eb vendosim kufij t\u00eb qart\u00eb midis asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb reale dhe asaj q\u00eb i atribuojm\u00eb dikujt. K\u00ebshtu do ta kap\u00ebrcejm\u00eb konfliktin q\u00eb po ndodh brenda nesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne projektojm\u00eb t\u00eb metat tona te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje pozitive p\u00ebr veten. Vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimi dhe mekanizmat mbrojt\u00ebs luajn\u00eb nj\u00eb rol themelor n\u00eb mbrojtjen e egos. T\u00eb ashtuquajturat mekanizma mbrojt\u00ebs t\u00eb egos jan\u00eb strategji q\u00eb ne p\u00ebrdorim n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur nj\u00eb perceptim pozitiv t\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Truri i njeriut ka evoluar m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur veten kund\u00ebr asaj q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e dhimbshme ose e papranueshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mekanizma t\u00eb till\u00eb na mbrojn\u00eb nga njohja e aspekteve negative t\u00eb personalitetit ton\u00eb. Problemi lind kur k\u00ebto mekanizma b\u00ebhen automatike dhe ne fillojm\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorim ato n\u00eb baza ditore. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ne shtremb\u00ebrojm\u00eb realitetin n\u00ebn ndikimin e egos son\u00eb e cila nuk ka nj\u00eb rezultat pozitiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, kur fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb rreth nesh jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me urrejtje, zili dhe t\u00eb gjitha tiparet e tjera negative, \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb rishqyrtojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe mendimet tona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb kritikojm\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb panevojshme, ne ndoshta po e kritikojm\u00eb veten n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ose si\u00e7 tha Buda: \u201cGjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju m\u00ebrzit tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb projeksion i problemeve tuaja t\u00eb brendshme t\u00eb pazgjidhura\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimi i ul\u00ebt e pengon nj\u00eb person t\u00eb gjykoj\u00eb objektivisht njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth tij. Ky fenomen quhet projeksion negativ dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm mbrojt\u00ebs me t\u00eb cilin ia atribuojm\u00eb t\u00eb metat dhe dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tona njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha tiparet, emocionet dhe rrethanat tona negative, ne ia atribuojm\u00eb ato njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebrreth […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":32882,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-32881","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n