Njer\u00ebzit shpesh hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb se nuk e din\u00eb di\u00e7ka, duke menduar se do t\u00eb duken jo inteligjent\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, e v\u00ebrteta e \u00e7\u00ebshtjes \u00ebsht\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk shmangen nga t\u00eb qenit vet\u00ebkritik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb zakonisht shum\u00eb m\u00eb inteligjent\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit e zgjuar i p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb metat e tyre pasi kuptojn\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb dish kurr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka; dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, ka gjithmon\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar. Le t\u00eb shohim disa shenja t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se jeni m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar se sa mendoni<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Ti di t\u00eb ankohesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duke u ankuar (me limite) sa her\u00eb vini re q\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkon si\u00e7 duhet n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs (ose jo), tregon q\u00eb keni nj\u00eb nivel t\u00eb lart\u00eb inteligjence emocionale. Sado t\u00eb duket sikur thjesht t\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ankohesh, n\u00eb fakt tregon se je i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb ndodh rreth teje. E kupton ndikimin negativ q\u00eb gj\u00ebrat mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb mbi njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb, prandaj ndjen nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb reaguar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Flet me veten<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt besojn\u00eb se vijn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrfitime nga bisedat me veten. T\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh veten dhe t’i thuash di\u00e7ka mbrapsht ka nj\u00eb impakt ndryshe n\u00eb tru krahasuar me ndikimin q\u00eb jep t\u00eb lexuarit apo t\u00eb menduarit. Ata q\u00eb flasin me vete konsiderohen si njer\u00ebz q\u00eb marrin vendimet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira dhe p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb gjendjet e ndryshme emocionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Keni vet\u00ebkontroll.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I p\u00ebrballoni tundimet dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e inteligjenc\u00ebs. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00ebse ky tipar ju karakterizon q\u00eb prej adoleshenc\u00ebs. Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se njer\u00ebzit me vet\u00ebkontroll m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Kjo i \u00e7on n\u00eb stil m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm jete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Kalon koh\u00eb me veten<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S’ke frik\u00eb t\u00eb jesh vet\u00ebm, madje e shijon koh\u00ebn me veten dhe mendimet e tua. Nuk ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i rrethuar nga njer\u00ebzit gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr t’u ndjer\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Nuk mendon kurr\u00eb q\u00eb je shum\u00eb i zgjuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ti je aq i zgjuar sa e di mir\u00eb q\u00eb njeriu ka gjithmon\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar. Njer\u00ebzit e zgjuar nuk e ndjejn\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbivler\u00ebsuar veten apo aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre. Madje, ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra q\u00eb s’din\u00eb sesa p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Keni nj\u00eb rreth t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb shok\u00ebsh rreth vetes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit e zgjuar kan\u00eb nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl miqsh pasi jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Keni ankth<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hulumtimet n\u00eb revist\u00ebn Intelligence sugjerojn\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit me IQ t\u00eb lart\u00eb, raportojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb diagnoza t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimeve t\u00eb humorit dhe ankthit. Kjo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak se njer\u00ebzit inteligjent\u00eb shpesh mendojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7’duhet p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka pasi p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebrin\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Njer\u00ebzit shpesh hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb se nuk e din\u00eb di\u00e7ka, duke menduar se do t\u00eb duken jo inteligjent\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, e v\u00ebrteta e \u00e7\u00ebshtjes \u00ebsht\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk shmangen nga t\u00eb qenit vet\u00ebkritik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb zakonisht shum\u00eb m\u00eb inteligjent\u00eb. Njer\u00ebzit e zgjuar i p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb metat e tyre pasi kuptojn\u00eb se nuk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":34779,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-34780","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n