Shumica prej nesh duan t\u00eb takohen dhe t\u00eb vendosen me personin e duhur dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb q\u00eb kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme, e lumtur dhe e q\u00ebndrueshme. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, af\u00ebrsisht 40-50% e martesave n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb me divorc. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar n\u00eb shmangien e grackave t\u00eb zakonshme q\u00eb prishin martesat dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, k\u00ebtu jan\u00eb disa nga arsyet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00ebshtjet e besimit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mungesa ose humbja e besimit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga pengesat m\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr suksesin afatgjat\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti. Pa besim, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie humbet dy nga shtyllat kryesore p\u00ebr krijimin dhe mbajtjen e nj\u00eb lidhjeje t\u00eb forte. \u00c7\u00ebshtjet e besimit mund t\u00eb shfaqen n\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebnyrash, si xhelozia, posesiviteti, ngurt\u00ebsia e paarsyeshme, pabesia emocionale, tradhtia fizike\/seksuale, loja e loj\u00ebs relacionale, mungesa e besueshm\u00ebris\u00eb ose e besueshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe mungesa e mb\u00ebshtetjes emocionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pritshm\u00ebri t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gjat\u00ebsi vale p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb kohore. Elementet q\u00eb shpesh t\u00ebrheqin dy njer\u00ebz s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje \u2013 t\u00ebrheqja fizike, interesat e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta, prejardhja e ngjashme socio-ekonomike \u2013 shpesh b\u00ebhen m\u00eb pak qendrore, nd\u00ebrsa vendosen realitetet dhe k\u00ebrkesat e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e \u00e7iftit n\u00eb lidhje mund t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme kur \u00e7iftet fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dallimin midis \u201cajo q\u00eb un\u00eb dua\u201d kundrejt \u201cajo q\u00eb duam\u201d kur flasin p\u00ebr q\u00ebllimet dhe aspiratat e tyre. Divergjenca n\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri me kalimin e koh\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr arsye pse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00ebvizja n\u00ebp\u00ebr jet\u00eb me shpejt\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur nj\u00ebri partner po m\u00ebson dhe po rritet me nj\u00eb rit\u00ebm t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa tjetri q\u00ebndron statik, ky mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb burim i divergjenc\u00ebs relacionale. Rrethet profesionale dhe shoq\u00ebrore t\u00eb \u00e7iftit fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb dhe s\u00eb shpejti edhe vet\u00eb \u00e7ifti fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb rritur fizikisht, intelektualisht dhe shoq\u00ebrisht. P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb ndani me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin sistemet tuaja p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse t\u00eb vlerave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00ebshtjet e komunikimit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb e madhe. Studime t\u00eb shumta kan\u00eb identifikuar komunikimin (ose munges\u00ebn e tij) si nj\u00eb nga arsyet kryesore p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb terapi, si dhe nj\u00eb nga arsyet kryesore p\u00ebr ndarje dhe divorc. Parashikuesi i vet\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i divorcit \u00ebsht\u00eb kur nj\u00ebri ose t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebrbuzje n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. P\u00ebrbuzja, e kund\u00ebrta e respektit, shpesh shprehet n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gjykimit negativ, kritik\u00ebs ose sarkazm\u00ebs n\u00eb lidhje me vler\u00ebn e nj\u00eb individi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Abuzimi me zakonet e jet\u00ebs.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Abuzimet me zakonet e jet\u00ebs jan\u00eb tipare t\u00eb cilat, megjith\u00ebse mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb ose jo drejtp\u00ebrdrejt partnerin (si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb var\u00ebsia e fsheht\u00eb e loj\u00ebrave t\u00eb fatit), p\u00ebrfundimisht mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruese. Shembuj t\u00eb abuzimit me zakonet e jet\u00ebs p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb pirjen me probleme, p\u00ebrdorimin e drog\u00ebs, bixhozin, blerjet e tep\u00ebrta ose shpenzimet. Zakonet ose var\u00ebsit\u00eb si k\u00ebto i r\u00ebndojn\u00eb shum\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet dhe ushqehen me fusha t\u00eb tjera problematike, si mungesa e besimit ose komunikimi i dob\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00ebshtjet financiare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sa m\u00eb gjat\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar, aq m\u00eb e madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mund\u00ebsia e papajtueshm\u00ebris\u00eb financiare. Sipas hulumtimeve, dallimet mbi parat\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet kryesore p\u00ebr shp\u00ebrb\u00ebrjen e martes\u00ebs. Por nj\u00eb \u00e7ift gjithashtu nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i martuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur sfida parash. \u00c7\u00ebshtjet e parave prekin disa nga nevojat dhe frik\u00ebrat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb thella psikologjike, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dhe jo kufizuar n\u00eb besimin, sigurin\u00eb, fuqin\u00eb, kontrollin dhe mbijetes\u00ebn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Shumica prej nesh duan t\u00eb takohen dhe t\u00eb vendosen me personin e duhur dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb q\u00eb kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme, e lumtur dhe e q\u00ebndrueshme. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, af\u00ebrsisht 40-50% e martesave n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb me divorc. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar n\u00eb shmangien e grackave t\u00eb zakonshme q\u00eb prishin martesat dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14164,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-35391","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n