Takimi me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb jet\u00eb. \u00c7do person i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme, mik, shef, koleg, partner apo i njohur q\u00eb kemi, dikur ishte thjesht nj\u00eb i huaj. Dhe kur e takuam p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nuk mund ta kishim iden\u00eb se do t\u00eb krijonim marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien q\u00eb ndajm\u00eb tani, apo mund ta kishim?
\u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb dim\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dim\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb e takojm\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebse kemi nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb q\u00eb na ndihmon t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb se me \u00e7far\u00eb lloj njer\u00ebzish kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb.
N\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjen q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur dik\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb, mund t\u00eb na ndihmojn\u00eb disa element\u00eb, por q\u00eb nuk na japin menj\u00ebher\u00eb shum\u00eb informacion p\u00ebr personalitetin e tjetrit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, n\u00ebse doni t\u00eb kuptoni personalitetin dhe karakterin e nj\u00eb personi, ekziston nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb, sipas hulumtimeve, mund t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.
Thjesht pyesni personin p\u00ebrball\u00eb jush se \u00e7far\u00eb mendon ai p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.
Sipas nj\u00eb studimi nga Universiteti i Nebrask\u00ebs , njer\u00ebzit shohin karakteristikat tona tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. K\u00ebshtu, nj\u00eb personazh egoist do t\u00eb dalloj\u00eb element\u00eb t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb shoh\u00eb karakteristika m\u00eb t\u00eb buta dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb qeta.
Studiuesit u k\u00ebrkuan pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsve t\u00eb gjykojn\u00eb karakteristikat (si pozitive ashtu edhe negative) t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.
Sa m\u00eb pozitivisht i gjykonin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm emocionalisht ishin pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ata q\u00eb i gjykonin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt negativisht ishin narcist\u00eb dhe kishin m\u00eb shum\u00eb sjellje antisociale.
Sigurisht, argumentojn\u00eb shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt, fakti q\u00eb nj\u00eb narcisist sheh elemente negative tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai b\u00ebn t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb me veten e tij. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, njer\u00ebzit me nj\u00eb \u00e7rregullim personaliteti mund t\u00eb besojn\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb, armiq\u00ebsor\u00eb dhe keqdash\u00ebs, edhe n\u00ebse nuk mund t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb ngjashme n\u00eb vetvete.
Si\u00e7 v\u00ebrejn\u00eb ata, nj\u00eb person negativ gjithashtu i sheh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm kjo tendenc\u00eb tregon m\u00eb shum\u00eb shanse p\u00ebr depresion ose \u00e7rregullime t\u00eb tjera psikologjike.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Takimi me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb jet\u00eb. \u00c7do person i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme, mik, shef, koleg, partner apo i njohur q\u00eb kemi, dikur ishte thjesht nj\u00eb i huaj. Dhe kur e takuam p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nuk mund ta kishim iden\u00eb se do t\u00eb krijonim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":36129,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-36114","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n