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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n\u201cMami m\u00eb ka braktisur kur kam qen\u00eb dy muajshe, motra ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb vje\u00e7 e nj\u00eb muaj. N\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb babi ka qen\u00eb jasht\u00eb shtetit, nuk ka qen\u00eb me ne. P\u00ebr n\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur gjyshja dhe gjyshi. Arsyen e ndarjes s\u00eb mamit dhe babit nuk e kemi ditur kurr\u00eb. Ndoshta nuk kan\u00eb dashur q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ndihemi keq. At\u00eb periudh\u00ebn q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb babi jasht\u00eb, p\u00ebr ne \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur xhaxhai. Ai ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb duke studiuar, por prej nesh e ka l\u00ebn\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn. Pas vdekjes s\u00eb gjyshit, jeta p\u00ebr mua edhe p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn ka ndryshuar. Kur isha tre vje\u00e7 dhe motra kat\u00ebr, babi \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr. Ajo erdhi dhe disa gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr ne ndryshuan. Gjyshja sa her\u00eb vinte tek ne na e shikonte trupin zi. Shtylla e jet\u00ebs sime ka qen\u00eb gjyshja, na ka ndenjur af\u00ebr, na ka edukuar. Arsyeja se pse jam veshur me t\u00eb bardha \u00ebsht\u00eb sepse, shum\u00eb vajza ndoshta e kan\u00eb historin\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb ose pak m\u00eb ndryshe, kam dashur t\u00eb ju b\u00ebhem shembull, sepse m\u00eb ka zhg\u00ebnjyer shum\u00eb her\u00eb jeta dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri jam \u00e7uar n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Kujtimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb q\u00eb ma ka l\u00ebn\u00eb mami \u00ebsht\u00eb motra. Babi kur \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me njerk\u00ebn, ajo ka dashur ta largoj\u00eb prej nesh. Ata b\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por kur u rrit\u00ebm, babi na ka afruar m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Kur kemi qen\u00eb t\u00eb vogla i kemi veshur nj\u00eb pal\u00eb taka dhe na ka b\u00ebrtitur na ka mbyllur n\u00eb dhom\u00eb duke na th\u00ebn\u00eb mos b\u00ebni z\u00eb. Kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00ebrzin\u00eb q\u00eb kisha nuk e shprehja dot sepse kam ndenjur gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb dhom\u00eb vet\u00ebm, kam pasur nj\u00eb kukull q\u00eb e quaja mami dhe e puthja. Gjyshja s\u2019ka l\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb penges\u00eb p\u00ebr ne dhe kush m\u00eb pyeste, thoja \u00ebsht\u00eb mami im. Kur kam qen\u00eb 13 vje\u00e7, ishte 8-marsi, m\u00eb tha nj\u00eb shoqe, o sa mir\u00eb ty mami t\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nuk ke kujt ti shkruash let\u00ebr. I thash\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb i shkruaj gjyshes sime. U ndjeva shum\u00eb keq dhe kam mbledhur 15-16 euro dhe shkova n\u00eb farmaci, t\u00eb bleja di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ti jepja fund jet\u00ebs. I kam shkruajtur nj\u00eb let\u00ebr familjes q\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb jetoj m\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj m\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha mungesat q\u00eb kam. M\u00eb d\u00ebrguan n\u00eb spital sepse nuk e dinin se \u00e7far\u00eb kisha. Gjithmon\u00eb e kam pasur \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb t\u00eb ulemi me mamin, babin dhe motr\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb. Me mamin kam pasur kontakt. Kur ka ardhur n\u00eb gjimnaz t\u00eb m\u00eb takonte, kishte 7-8 vite q\u00eb ishte larguar, madje edhe z\u00ebrin ja kisha harruar. Arsyeja ishte sepse ajo u martua me dik\u00eb. Babi nuk na ka penguar kurr\u00eb q\u00eb ta takojm\u00eb mamin, gjithmon\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna juaj, ju ka lindur dhe ju ka mbajtur n\u00ebnt\u00eb muaj n\u00eb bark.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur e takova mamin e kisha si nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i larg\u00ebt, jo si n\u00ebna ime. Un\u00eb tani jam e lidhur me babin shum\u00eb, ai b\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr mua. Un\u00eb kam mbajtur mbiemrin e mamit sepse doja nj\u00eb kujtim prej saj. Tani e kam falur edhe pse s\u2019ka mundur t\u00eb na rris\u00eb, t\u00eb na shikoj\u00eb hapat e par\u00eb. Tani q\u00eb e kujtoj them sa mir\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ndodhur sepse po mos t\u2019m\u00eb kishte ndodhur ndoshta do kisha qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i llastuar q\u00eb nuk do e kisha ditur \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqja apo e mira.\u201d<\/em>\u2013 tregoi Kaderi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Konkurentja e \u201cBig Brother Vip Kosova\u201d, Kader Kicaj gjat\u00eb primet t\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes s\u00eb djeshme mes lot\u00ebsh ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim prek\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e saj. Ajo tregoi q\u00eb n\u00ebna e saj e ka braktikus q\u00eb dy muajshe, nd\u00ebrsa tha q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur vet\u00ebm me motr\u00ebn dhe gjyshen pasi edhe babai ka qen\u00eb emigrant jasht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":40142,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-41457","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"yoast_head":"\n