Konkurrentja e \u201cShe\u2019s on Top\u201d, Erika, ka vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb me publikun nj\u00eb histori shum\u00eb personale t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Ajo ka rr\u00ebfyer se kur ka qen\u00eb 19 vje\u00e7e ka nisur nj\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, q\u00eb m\u00eb pas u fejuan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur ata ishin t\u00eb fejuar ajo ka ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb ai jetonte jasht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe nisi t\u00eb ishte xheloz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si pasoj\u00eb, Erika vendosi q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonte tek ai, ku filloi edhe dhuna. Ajo ka treguar se e ka shtyr\u00eb dhe i ka drejtuar thik\u00ebn kur kishte bebin n\u00eb krah\u00eb. Pas k\u00ebsaj ngjarje ka k\u00ebrkuar divorcin dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer te sht\u00ebpia e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Erika ka nj\u00eb mesazh p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha vajzat q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, ku thot\u00eb se \u2018nuk ka asnj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb beqare dhe t\u00eb fillosh jet\u00ebn nga e para\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Historia e Erik\u00ebs:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Historia ime nis kur kam qen\u00eb 19 vje\u00e7e, kam qen\u00eb e lidhur me nj\u00eb \u00e7un. Kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie zgjati p\u00ebr gati 3 vite, nga kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie lindi dhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb si histori. N\u00eb fillim ka nisur bukur si \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Kam punuar kameriere n\u00eb nj\u00eb lokal ku ai vinte \u00e7do dit\u00eb aty. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukur m\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb, m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu, dukej tip interesant dhe thash\u00eb \u2018pse jo\u2019 se vajz\u00eb e re. P\u00eblqimi ishte nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt dhe nis\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb njiheshim. \u00c7do gj\u00eb ishte ok, shum\u00eb e bukur, vazhduam marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien normale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Derisa vendos\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u2019a kalonim gj\u00ebn\u00eb pak m\u00eb serioze dhe u fejuam. N\u00eb fillim ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm, falte shum\u00eb dashuri, koh\u00eb, p\u00ebrkushtim, v\u00ebmendje, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr ka nevoj\u00eb, respektin mbi t\u00eb gjitha. Mbasi u fejuam jetoja te familja e tij, kam ndenjur atje 3 muaj. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj periudhe un\u00eb ngela shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Pastaj ai iku jasht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr. Gjat\u00eb periudh\u00ebs q\u00eb ngela shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb un\u00eb u ktheva te familja ime. Duke qen\u00eb se ai iku jasht\u00eb, ndihesha m\u00eb e qet\u00eb te sht\u00ebpia ime. Aty filluan konfliktet e para p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje xhelozie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Erdhi nj\u00eb moment q\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb ikja tek ai. Xhelozia lindi nga ana e ish-partnerit tim p\u00ebr veshjen, flok\u00ebt, p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat bazike. M\u00eb thoshte \u2018pse ke veshur k\u00ebt\u00eb fustanin kaq t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, pse k\u00ebto pantallona kaq t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb\u2019. Kaluan n\u00eb ofendime, gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mua m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj mendim p\u00ebr partnerin tim. Shfaqi nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk e kisha provuar m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb ne kishim thjesht nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Isha dhe me nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb bark, duhej t\u00eb isha me e qet\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb periudh\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i afruar me mua, m\u00eb i qet\u00eb, filloi duke shfaqur nj\u00eb an\u00eb komplet tjet\u00ebr nga ai q\u00eb njihja un\u00eb. M\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe \u2018ti nuk e ke f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me mua\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Un\u00eb vendosa q\u00eb t\u00eb ikja tek ai personi edhe pse familja ime nuk ishte dakord. Lash\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn e \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja tek ai se jetonte n\u00eb Itali. Thash\u00eb se do t\u00eb ndryshonte pasi t\u00eb b\u00ebhej baba, si \u00e7do fem\u00ebr q\u00eb mendon m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet, q\u00eb nuk do t\u2019a rris\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn pa baba. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb kam shkuar atje, aty filloi \u00e7do gj\u00eb e keqe e mundshme derisa arriti dhe n\u00eb dhun\u00eb fizike, edhe kur isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Nuk i thash\u00eb askujt p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjetoja se nuk doja q\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoja familjen time apo t\u00eb atij. Ishin dy familje n\u00eb mes, nuk ishim vet\u00ebm un\u00eb dhe ai, ishte dhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mbi t\u00eb gjitha. Duke par\u00eb q\u00eb kjo gj\u00ebja zgjati, kuptova q\u00eb duhej t\u2019i jepja fund.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb periudh\u00ebn q\u00eb lindi bebi ka patur dy raste q\u00eb un\u00eb kam th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018stop, nuk funksionon si marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie\u2019. I pari ka qen\u00eb kur m\u00eb ka shtyr\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb krah\u00eb dhe e dyta momenti kur m\u00eb ka drejtuar thik\u00ebn. Gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit kur u kam treguar \u2018ti der\u00ebn ton\u00eb e ke patur gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb hapur dhe merre f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e hajde t\u00eb sht\u00ebpia jote\u2019. E kan\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim sikur t\u2019a kishin tyrin. E hapa un\u00eb divorcin se ai nuk donte. Un\u00eb vendosa q\u00eb t\u00eb ndahem, i thash\u00eb \u2018se nuk ka kthim pas\u2019. Un\u00eb nuk dua q\u00eb f\u00ebmija im nes\u00ebr, pasnes\u00ebr t\u00eb rritet dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i keq te nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr mbi t\u00eb gjitha\u201d. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Konkurrentja e \u201cShe\u2019s on Top\u201d, Erika, ka vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb me publikun nj\u00eb histori shum\u00eb personale t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Ajo ka rr\u00ebfyer se kur ka qen\u00eb 19 vje\u00e7e ka nisur nj\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, q\u00eb m\u00eb pas u fejuan. N\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur ata ishin t\u00eb fejuar ajo ka ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48566,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48565","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-showbiz"],"yoast_head":"\n