Ke lidhje me dik\u00eb por nuk je e sigurt n\u00eb ndjenjat e tij. Sigurisht q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen ose ke filluar t\u00eb ndjesh por do t\u00eb kuptosh n\u00ebse edhe ai ndjen t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Sigurisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb mendjen e nj\u00eb mashkulli apo n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij, por disa shenja dhe mund t\u00eb na e tregojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb dashuri ka rregulla t\u00eb ndryshme, dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e marr\u00ebveshjes q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb midis partner\u00ebve.Psikolog\u00ebt arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb shenja q\u00eb i ve\u00e7ojn\u00eb meshkujt e dashuruar, dhe na b\u00ebjn\u00eb ta kuptojm\u00eb m\u00eb leht\u00eb n\u00ebse ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Ja disa prej tyre:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb mashkull i dashuruar p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb jap\u00eb v\u00ebmendje, dhe shk\u00ebput gjith\u00eb lidhjet e m\u00ebparshme. K\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta kuptosh leht\u00eb. N\u00ebse ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs me ty, sigurisht q\u00eb nuk ka n\u00eb horizont asnj\u00eb fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse nj\u00eb mashkull mban akoma prezent lidhjen e m\u00ebparshme pavar\u00ebsisht justifikimet q\u00eb jep q\u00eb nuk e largon dot t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn,ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i juaji duhet patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheni dhe ta largoni.Nj\u00eb mashkull q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i qart\u00eb n\u00eb ndjenjat e tij dhe nuk di tju japi v\u00ebndin q\u00eb ju takon m\u00eb besoni nuk ka p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb sikur t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb edhe vite me rradh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur nj\u00eb mashkull \u00ebsht\u00eb i interesuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr ai e tregon q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim,jep v\u00ebm\u00ebndje jep shum\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebrkushtim dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin\u00eb n\u00eb rutin\u00ebn e tij. N\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim apo ka komplekse pasi sapo ka dal nga nj\u00eb lidhje at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo nuk ndryshon me kalimin e koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur nj\u00eb mashkull dashuron, ai nuk ka frik\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj q\u00eb je e tij. Nuk ka frik\u00eb apo kompleks t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshij\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij,me miqt\u00eb e tij ose t\u00eb shmang planet me ty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ndjen nj\u00eb mashkull e shikoni shum\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tij pasi syt\u00eb asnjeher\u00eb nuk g\u00ebnjejn\u00eb.Shikimi kundrejt\u00eb jush l\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb sesa shum\u00eb ndjen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mbi gjith\u00eb\u00e7ka jan\u00eb veprat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb sesa r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Meshkujt zakonisht kan\u00eb instiktin mbrojt\u00ebs ndaj femr\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre,ata instiktivisht dhe me d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb kujdesen q\u00eb femra q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr ti shkojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat mir\u00eb. I gjenden n\u00eb \u00e7do rast af\u00ebr dhe jepen n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur vajz\u00ebn e zemr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse nj\u00eb mashkull tregon egoiz\u00ebm,k\u00ebrkon vet\u00ebm v\u00ebm\u00ebndje p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e tij ose \u00ebsht\u00eb posesiv d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai qendra e v\u00ebm\u00ebndjes at\u00ebher\u00eb ai percepton q\u00eb femra q\u00eb ka n\u00eb krah\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht\u00eb bonus. Kjo tregon q\u00eb nuk ka ndjenja t\u00eb pastra me ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mos e injoroni instinktin. Ai mund tua tregoj\u00eb shpesh m\u00eb mir\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh me t\u00eb. N\u00eb fund dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb ndjeri dhe zemra di ta dalloj\u00eb furtun\u00ebn nga larg, apo diellin q\u00eb po afrohet drejt saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ke lidhje me dik\u00eb por nuk je e sigurt n\u00eb ndjenjat e tij. Sigurisht q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen ose ke filluar t\u00eb ndjesh por do t\u00eb kuptosh n\u00ebse edhe ai ndjen t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Sigurisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb mendjen e nj\u00eb mashkulli apo n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij, por […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8848,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4978","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n