Pyetja q\u00eb shum\u00eb prej nesh b\u00ebjn\u00eb kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet romantike \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr gruan q\u00eb dashuron. Po, dashuria mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb forc\u00eb e fuqishme q\u00eb transformon edhe zemrat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr shum\u00ebkush mbetet ende nj\u00eb mister, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt: kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb disa nga arsyet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme pse nj\u00eb mashkull \u00ebsht\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr gruan q\u00eb do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1.Ai d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u2013 Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thell\u00ebsisht i dashuruar me gruan e tij, ai do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe p\u00ebr ta trajtuar at\u00eb si nj\u00eb mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb.
2.E kupton se sa i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u2013 Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur kur gjen gruan e duhur dhe do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ta mbajtur at\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, sepse ajo ndri\u00e7on bot\u00ebn e tij si askush tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3.\u00cbsht\u00eb gati p\u00ebr kompromis \u2013 B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr energjin\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrpjekjen q\u00eb ne jemi gati t\u00eb investojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dashurie, ndaj kur dashuria e nj\u00eb mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb, nuk ka shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb ose shum\u00eb pak kompromis p\u00ebr t\u00eb.
4.Ajo e inkurajon at\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn \u2013 Partneri perfekt ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb magjike p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re t\u00eb gjitha cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb mashkullit t\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i nxjerr\u00eb ato n\u00eb plan t\u00eb par\u00eb. Lavd\u00ebrimi, mb\u00ebshtetja dhe inkurajimi juaj mund ta ndihmojn\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb arrij\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij. Me t\u00eb n\u00eb krah, ai ndihet i pathyesh\u00ebm dhe i pandalsh\u00ebm. Prandaj, kur nj\u00eb grua beson n\u00eb burrin e saj, nuk ka asgj\u00eb q\u00eb ajo nuk mund t\u00eb arrij\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5.Ai e di q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb vler\u00ebson veten nuk do t\u00eb toleroj\u00eb m\u00eb pak se sa meriton \u2013 Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e vet\u00ebdijshme p\u00ebr vler\u00ebn e saj nuk do t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet me asgj\u00eb m\u00eb pak se sa meriton. Pra, n\u00ebse mendoni se mund t\u00eb anuloni planet n\u00eb minut\u00ebn e fundit, t\u00eb zhdukeni pa fjal\u00eb, ose t\u00eb mashtroni dhe g\u00ebnjeni, m\u00eb mir\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6.Ka frik\u00eb se mos e humbas\u00eb, sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb i ka ndodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u2013 Frika mund ta shtyj\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb malet dhe t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb oqeanet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur pran\u00eb vetes gruan q\u00eb do. Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i dashuruar me gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb i ka ndodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur p\u00ebr ta mbajtur at\u00eb pran\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7.Ai sheh nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb me t\u00eb \u2013 A mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb? Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb fillon t\u00eb imagjinoj\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme me nj\u00eb grua, ai nuk \u00ebnd\u00ebrron vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb romanc\u00eb kalimtare. Ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb njeriu i \u00ebndrrave t\u00eb tij.
8.Ai do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb n\u00ebse do \u2013 Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb veten, por vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse ai d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm sepse ju e d\u00ebshironi at\u00eb. Mund t\u2019i jepni t\u00eb gjitha ultimatumet n\u00eb bot\u00eb, por n\u00ebse ai nuk ka d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e brendshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar me veten, nuk mund ta detyroni t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Megjithat\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur q\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua. Dashuria i frym\u00ebzon njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn. Por n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, varet n\u00ebse ai vendos t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u2019u rritur dhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pyetja q\u00eb shum\u00eb prej nesh b\u00ebjn\u00eb kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet romantike \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr gruan q\u00eb dashuron. Po, dashuria mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb forc\u00eb e fuqishme q\u00eb transformon edhe zemrat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. P\u00ebr shum\u00ebkush mbetet ende nj\u00eb mister, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt: kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":54834,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-54835","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"yoast_head":"\n