Egli Tako, ish-konkurrentja e \u201cBig Brother VIP Albania\u201d, ka reaguar p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb pas shqet\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsve lidhur me gjendjen e saj emocionale. P\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb postimi n\u00eb Instagram, ajo sqaroi se nuk ndodhet n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb spital psikiatrik dhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrethuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNdihem e trishtuar dhe e ngarkuar emocionalisht, por nuk ndodhem n\u00eb asnj\u00eb spital psikiatrik apo di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ngjashme. Kam njer\u00ebz pran\u00eb q\u00eb po investojn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka kan\u00eb, q\u00eb un\u00eb ta rimarr veten\u201d, shkruan Egli, duke fal\u00ebnderuar ndjek\u00ebsit p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb reagimin e saj, ajo flet p\u00ebr ndjesit\u00eb q\u00eb ka p\u00ebrjetuar dhe p\u00ebr raportin e saj me loj\u00ebn brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb \u201cBBVIP\u201d. Egli shprehet se e ka pasur t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb distancohet emocionalisht, por po punon p\u00ebr ta menaxhuar m\u00eb mir\u00eb situat\u00ebn.
Ajo gjithashtu i \u00ebsht\u00eb referuar deklaratave t\u00eb Gjestit, duke theksuar se disa sjellje i kan\u00eb kujtuar eksperienca t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs. \u201cNuk dua t\u00eb jap m\u00eb shum\u00eb detaje, sepse dua q\u00eb t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr t\u00eb mirat dhe t\u00eb mbaj p\u00ebr vete t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat\u201d, shkruan ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fund t\u00eb mesazhit t\u00eb saj, Egli shpreh mir\u00ebnjohjen p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen e marr\u00eb dhe thekson se po punon p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur forc\u00ebn brenda vetes p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar p\u00ebrpara.
Shihni reagimin e saj t\u00eb plot\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Reagimi i plot\u00eb:
Uroj q\u00eb ky reagim imi i k\u00ebrkuar aq shum\u00eb prej jush, t\u2019ju ket\u00eb gjetur mir\u00eb ju dhe gjith\u00eb familjar\u00ebt tuaj!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Faleminderit nga zemra q\u00eb keni shprehur k\u00ebt\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim masiv p\u00ebr gjendjen time, ju detyrohem shum\u00eb!
Dua ta nis duke ju th\u00ebn\u00eb se ndihem e trishtuar dhe e ngarkuar emocionalisht, por nuk ndodhem n\u00eb asnj\u00eb spital psikiatrik apo asgj\u00eb e ngjashme me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit. Kam shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pran\u00eb vetes q\u00eb po investohen me gjith\u00e7ka kan\u00eb, q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb rimledh forcat p\u00ebr ta dashur veten shum\u00eb! Faleminderit Zot!
Kjo \u00e7far\u00eb po ndaj me ju sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjesi nga shpirti e fjal\u00eb q\u00eb vazhdimisht i kam shprehur edhe brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, por ndoshta duke mos i b\u00ebr\u00eb fort, nuk kam mundur t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohem mjaftuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fatkeq\u00ebsia e narratives s\u00eb historis\u00eb sime (n\u00ebse m\u00eb lejoni ta quaj t\u00eb till\u00eb) mediatikisht mendoj se ishte fakti q\u00eb nuk ju dha z\u00eb, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn mjaftuesh\u00ebm, pamjeve ku edhe mua m\u00eb citohej sinqerisht fjalia, qasje romantike e konfirmime se nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb ka lindur, se ka nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim, t\u00ebrheqje e p\u00eblqim, se shoh nj\u00eb perspektiv\u00eb tek ajo e gruas n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen, se s\u2019mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb dot larg meje si\u00e7 tha e tjera, si\u00e7 vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb partner ose dikush n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tentative mund t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Puthje, ledhatime, p\u00ebrqafime, prekje e embla e \u00e7do lloj kontakti, qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet syve, si nj\u00eb njeri i p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb ndjenja b\u00ebjn\u00eb, e kan\u00eb nj\u00eb pesh\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebrball\u00eb dikujt q\u00eb ndjen p\u00ebr ty\u2026 t\u00eb japin shpres\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk mendoj se ka vler\u00eb t\u00eb flas dhe p\u00ebr sekuancat ku sa her\u00eb un\u00eb distancohesha e mbaja q\u00ebndrim, rendte pas meje duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u2018q\u00ebndron dot larg meje\u2019, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja gjat\u00eb stoike, pasiguria, amplifikimi e ndihmat m\u00eb b\u00ebnin t\u00eb thyhesha para tij e ta p\u00ebrqafoja, duke e justifikuar me faktin se shum\u00eb veprime i b\u00ebnte p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur aktive loj\u00ebn e tij (dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb sot e kuptoj m\u00eb qart\u00eb). Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i mohoj e t\u2019i lexoj ndjenjat, por veprimet i kam lexuar si t\u00eb tilla, t\u00eb sinqerta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye zgjodha ta qendroja e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00eb ndjenjat e mia, t\u2019i lejoja t\u00eb m\u00eb ndikonin aq sa edhe vet\u00eb ai nuk k\u00ebrkonte t\u00eb b\u00ebja. U p\u00ebrpoqa shum\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoja loj\u00ebn e tij strategjike me pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, qoft\u00eb edhe kur ajo llogjikonte respektin ndaj vetes sime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U shqet\u00ebsova dhe kujdesa m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe emrin e tij aty brenda, se p\u00ebr veten, sepse e till\u00eb jam un\u00eb kur e dua dik\u00eb. Ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, e till\u00eb kam qen\u00eb e shpresoj shum\u00eb t\u00eb kem marr\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb sepse askush nuk duhet v\u00ebn\u00eb para vetes. N\u00eb fund l\u00ebndohesh ti dhe vet\u00ebm ti.
Si nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb b\u00ebn shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, deri n\u00eb vetmohim, t\u00ebrheq narcisizmin drejt meje, e kund\u00ebrta jote t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq. S\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb ndodh, ndaj dhe jam shprehur q\u00eb disa tipare m\u00eb kujtojn\u00eb dik\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn time pa pasur d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb jap m\u00eb shum\u00eb detaje, sepse si\u00e7 kam th\u00ebn\u00eb, dua q\u00eb t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr t\u00eb mirat e t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat t\u2019i mbaj p\u00ebr veten time. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00eb duhet ta sqaroj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb jam m\u00eb mir\u00eb, \u00e7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb kalon ma b\u00ebn pak m\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb panoram\u00ebn dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha nuk dua t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj m\u00eb familjen e veten time.
Vazhdoj t\u00eb kem ndjenja, nuk mundem dot t\u2019i fik buton, por t\u00eb qenurit n\u00eb distanc\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn ta kem m\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb realitetin dhe t\u00eb jem m\u00eb pak e ndikuar emocionalisht nga prania 24\/7 q\u00eb deri n\u00eb momentin e daljes, ishte e pamundur ta shmangia. M\u00eb ndikonte shum\u00eb emocionalisht. Malli \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i menaxhuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr mua, se sa prania.
Po merrem dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb me veten time p\u00ebr t\u2019u ngritur m\u00eb e fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha momentet tona t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoja lumturi dhe ndjenja t\u00eb forta, i them faleminderit me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr.
Por ka koh\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr veten al, n\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje, e t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e k\u00ebsaj historie, dhe ka zgjedhur t\u00eb deklarohet se asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019do mundeshim t\u00eb kishim nj\u00eb relacion romantik, mendoj se nuk kam arsye ta takoj jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb diskutim t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb isha b\u00ebr\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt n\u00eb optik\u00ebn e tij, e po m\u00eb thuhej shpesh fraza \u2018Un\u00eb, ti n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sht\u00ebpi\u2019. Po ma b\u00ebn t\u00eb pamundur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj k\u00ebtu, po m\u00eb prish loj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kam sakrifikuar etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb shkat\u00ebrron loj\u00ebn dhe veten, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur e luftuar p\u00ebr loj\u00ebn e dikujt tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruese t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb.
Nuk e p\u00ebrballoja dot m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb si akuz\u00eb, dhe shum\u00eb veprime t\u00eb tjera kontradiktore, ndaj dhe arrita n\u00eb pik\u00ebn ku rrug\u00ebtimi im te nd\u00ebrpritet.
Uroj me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr q\u00eb tani q\u00eb nuk jam, t\u00eb mundet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb loj\u00ebn e tij pa u prishja, sepse nuk dua t\u00eb jem kurr\u00eb penges\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse dinamika do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e till\u00eb, patjet\u00ebr q\u00eb vazhdoj t\u00eb jem koherente me deklarat\u00ebn time se ai meriton ta fitoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb edicion, si lojtari m\u00eb i larmish\u00ebm dhe me q\u00ebllim t\u00eb qart\u00eb brenda asaj sht\u00ebpie. Por edhe si njeriu q\u00eb pati aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb zemr\u00ebn dhe ndjenjat e mia me nj\u00eb intensitet t\u00eb thell\u00eb, t\u00eb qeshura e t\u00eb qara. M\u00eb b\u00ebri ta harroja q\u00eb isha pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb loje t\u00eb sht\u00ebpie ku p\u00ebrshtatesha me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, e ta doja at\u00eb vend.
Kemi ndar\u00eb pjat\u00ebn dhe shtratin s\u00eb bashku dhe nga ana ime, nuk do p\u00ebr\u00e7mohet asnj\u00ebher\u00eb.
Zgjedh t\u00eb mbaj mend p\u00ebr mir\u00eb, e t\u00eb le koh\u00ebn e Zotin t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb hallallin dhe harramin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Faleminderit nga shpirti p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb dashurin\u00eb dhe vler\u00ebsimin tuaj.
E juaja, Egli!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Egli Tako, ish-konkurrentja e \u201cBig Brother VIP Albania\u201d, ka reaguar p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb pas shqet\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsve lidhur me gjendjen e saj emocionale. P\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb postimi n\u00eb Instagram, ajo sqaroi se nuk ndodhet n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb spital psikiatrik dhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrethuar. \u201cNdihem e trishtuar dhe e ngarkuar emocionalisht, por nuk ndodhem n\u00eb asnj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":55842,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-55843","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"yoast_head":"\n