N\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim t\u00eb rrall\u00eb dhe plot emocione, Ermal Meta ka ndar\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb lidhjen e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb ka krijuar me dy vajza adoleshente nga nj\u00eb jetimore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Megjith\u00ebse ligj\u00ebrisht nuk i ka adoptuar ende p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb statusit martesor, ai dhe partnerja e tij Chiara e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb pa hezitim dashurin\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkushtimin e tyre prind\u00ebror n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e k\u00ebtyre vajzave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cKur u larguan p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ver\u00eb, kuptova se nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja m\u00eb pa to\u201d, rr\u00ebfen ai mes lot\u00ebve, duke p\u00ebrshkruar momentin kur u ndje p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb baba i tyre.
\u201cUn\u00eb dhe partnerja ime Chiara s\u00eb shpejti do t\u00eb kemi me vete dy vajzat tona t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb cilat deri m\u00eb tani kan\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb jetimore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. I takuam kur ishin 15 vje\u00e7, por duke qen\u00eb se nuk ishim t\u00eb martuar, nuk mund t\u2019i adoptonim. N\u00eb qershor ata do t\u00eb mbushin 18 vje\u00e7 dhe do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me ne. Por, po ju them, ato tashm\u00eb jan\u00eb vajzat tona p\u00ebr tre vjet. Nuk kam folur kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si jeni njohur me to?
\u201cDuke punuar me k\u00ebt\u00eb sht\u00ebpi familjare q\u00eb pret vajza dhe vajza t\u00eb reja, shpesh me histori t\u00eb tmerrshme pas tyre. Q\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb jemi par\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs, ose shkojm\u00eb t\u2019i vizitojm\u00eb ose vijn\u00eb k\u00ebtu, ne kemi vite q\u00eb jemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cN\u00eb momentin kur ata u larguan, nj\u00eb ver\u00eb, dhe kuptova se nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja dot m\u00eb pa ta\u2026 Ja, gjith\u00e7ka ishte rast\u00ebsisht\u2026 Un\u00eb duhej t\u00eb isha n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, pastaj n\u00eb Milano, dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj isha n\u00eb Bari duke luajtur. Murgesha q\u00eb rriti dhe shp\u00ebtoi n\u00eb thelb vajzat, t\u00eb cilat tashm\u00eb e njihja se kishin qen\u00eb disa her\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi familjare, m\u00eb telefonon dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb se jan\u00eb n\u00eb qytet p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb treg bamir\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndaj mundohem t\u2019i shoh dhe at\u00eb dit\u00eb ishte dit\u00eblindja e Lumes, por nuk e dija, nj\u00ebsoj si e mamas\u00eb sime, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do t\u00eb festoja n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje. Do t\u2019i marr dhe do t\u00eb dalim p\u00ebr drek\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb prisja nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb nga nj\u00eb mik, i cili duhej t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjej p\u00ebr pushimet q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb b\u00ebnim. Me pak fjal\u00eb, ky djal\u00eb m\u00eb shkruan dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb dytin vit radhazi po m\u00eb b\u00ebn nj\u00eb sharje t\u00eb madhe. K\u00ebshtu un\u00eb, q\u00eb isha n\u00eb makin\u00eb me ta, n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment u ktheva dhe thash\u00eb: \u201cVajza, \u00e7far\u00eb keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb?\u201d. \u201cAh, jo, asgj\u00eb.\u201d \u201cN\u00ebse doni t\u00eb vini me pushime me mua dhe Chiara\u2026\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ata ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, murgesha m\u00eb shikoi e hutuar dhe nj\u00eb moment m\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova se nuk e kisha pyetur Kiar\u00ebn. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb shkoj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe them: \u201cZem\u00ebr, duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb them di\u00e7ka.\u201d Ia shpjegova, por edhe ajo ishte shum\u00eb e lumtur\u201d.
Si shkoi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cShum\u00eb mir\u00eb. Edhe pse e kuptova q\u00eb nuk flija kurr\u00eb, i mbaja gjithmon\u00eb vesh\u00ebt hapur. Nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim total. M\u00eb pas u kthyem n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment ata u larguan. Chiara dhe un\u00eb u gjend\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb heshtje t\u00eb pabesueshme, ata po b\u00ebnin nj\u00eb raket\u00eb si Madonna, dhe nj\u00eb heshtje halucinative kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb, fillova t\u00eb qaja si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb banj\u00eb, un\u00eb munda t\u00eb qaja si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb banj\u00eb. Pastaj u pajtova me murgesh\u00ebn q\u00eb, pasi kishin shkuar n\u00eb familje t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb duhej t\u2019i merrnin p\u00ebr ver\u00ebn, sipas marr\u00ebveshjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme, do t\u2019i mbanim edhe p\u00ebr 15 dit\u00eb t\u00eb tjera\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pastaj sigurisht q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha tr\u00ebndafilat dhe lulet, sepse ata, q\u00eb jan\u00eb jetim\u00eb, kan\u00eb disa histori shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, me ndonj\u00ebrin nga ata m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt asgj\u00eb, dhe kjo tashm\u00eb tregonte qart\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb lloj traume kishte ajo kur erdhi koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb lamtumir\u00eb, ajo doli jasht\u00eb, pastaj u kthye. Ajo q\u00ebndroi p\u00ebrball\u00eb meje dhe\u2026 Ajo po l\u00ebkundej. \u201cKe harruar di\u00e7ka?\u201d e pyeta. Ajo tha jo. \u201cAt\u00ebher\u00eb pse u ktheve?\u201d Dhe, n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, mbase donte t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafohej, nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi, por mb\u00ebshteti kok\u00ebn k\u00ebtu\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai nuk mund ti bir\u00ebsonte sepse nuk ishe martuar.
\u201cEdhe ne ndoq\u00ebm k\u00ebshill\u00ebn e murgesh\u00ebs, ata mbaruan shkoll\u00ebn e mesme n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe tani po rriten dhe do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb e t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb me ne\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim t\u00eb rrall\u00eb dhe plot emocione, Ermal Meta ka ndar\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb lidhjen e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb ka krijuar me dy vajza adoleshente nga nj\u00eb jetimore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Megjith\u00ebse ligj\u00ebrisht nuk i ka adoptuar ende p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb statusit martesor, ai dhe partnerja e tij Chiara e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb pa hezitim dashurin\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":58112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-58113","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-stili-dhe-bota-e-vip"},"yoast_head":"\n