Dashuria nuk shprehet gjithmon\u00eb me gjeste spektakolare ose deklarata mbres\u00ebl\u00ebn\u00ebse. Shpesh, jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e thjeshta, t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb kuptimin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. Jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb se si ndihet dikush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sipas psikolog\u00ebve, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet i dashuruar nuk mund t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht ndjenjat e tij me fjal\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, e v\u00ebrteta shihet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ai ju shikon, n\u00eb detajet q\u00eb kujton, n\u00eb vendin q\u00eb ju jep n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Pra, n\u00ebse po pyesni veten p\u00ebr natyr\u00ebn e emocioneve t\u00eb tij, shikoni n\u00ebse i njihni n\u00ebnt\u00eb sjelljet e m\u00ebposhtme.
Ai e vendos lumturin\u00eb tuaj n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb.
Nj\u00eb nga treguesit m\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb burri t\u00eb dashuruar \u00ebsht\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien tuaj. Nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me gjeste madh\u00ebshtore, por me veprime t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme, si p\u00ebr shembull t\u00eb v\u00ebreni se si ju p\u00eblqen kafeja ose t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u2019ju g\u00ebzoni pas nj\u00eb dite t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pa humbur veten, ai do t\u2019ju jap\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Dashuria e tij tregohet p\u00ebrmes q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe pranis\u00eb s\u00eb matur.
Ai ju d\u00ebgjon.
V\u00ebmendja e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shkon p\u00ebrteJ \u201cd\u00ebgjimit\u201d. Kur nj\u00eb mashkull \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet i interesuar, ai i kushton v\u00ebmendje jo vet\u00ebm fjal\u00ebve tuaja, por edhe emocionit q\u00eb q\u00ebndron pas tyre . Ai kujton detajet, i kthehet bisedave q\u00eb ju emocionuan dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ju befason me gjeste q\u00eb v\u00ebrtetojn\u00eb se ai po ju d\u00ebgjonte \u2013 edhe kur mendonit se ai nuk po i kushtonte v\u00ebmendje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai gjen koh\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, pa marr\u00eb parasysh \u00e7far\u00eb.
Pavar\u00ebsisht se sa i z\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb orari i tij, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb kujdeset do t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ju par\u00eb, d\u00ebgjuar ose komunikuar me ju. Koha q\u00eb kalojm\u00eb me dik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pasqyrim i drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb i japim atij. Dhe kur dikush zgjedh q\u00eb ju t\u00eb jeni pjes\u00eb e orarit t\u00eb tij, dhe jo n\u00eb skaj t\u00eb tij.
Mb\u00ebshtet \u00ebndrrat dhe aspiratat tuaja
Nj\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore e dashuris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb inkurajimi . N\u00ebse nj\u00eb mashkull ju do, ai g\u00ebzohet p\u00ebr p\u00ebrparimin tuaj dhe beson n\u00eb potencialin tuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai nuk do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019ju rr\u00ebzoj\u00eb ose t\u2019ju ndaloj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiqni q\u00ebllimet tuaja. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ata do t\u00eb jen\u00eb pran\u00eb jush si n\u00eb suksese ashtu edhe n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi. Dhe \u00e7do sukses do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb festuar, jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb filluar nj\u00eb rreth vicioz konkurrues.
Ai respekton mendimin tuaj, edhe kur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord.
Respekti n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie nuk tregohet nga mungesa e mosmarr\u00ebveshjeve por nga m\u00ebnyra se si ato zgjidhen . Nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju do, nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019ju imponoj. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ai d\u00ebgjon, merr parasysh k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimin tuaj t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm dhe respekton pozicionin tuaj. Ai ju sheh si nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb barabart\u00eb, jo dik\u00eb q\u00eb thjesht duhet t\u00eb pajtohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb sigurt
Dashuria nuk matet vet\u00ebm me fjal\u00eb, por edhe me nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb sigurie. Kur je pran\u00eb tij ndihesh i qet\u00eb dhe i mbrojtur, si emocionalisht ashtu edhe praktikisht. Ju nuk keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb merrni me mend q\u00ebllimet e tij, as t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni p\u00ebr vendin tuaj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Me q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe respektin e tij, ai krijon nj\u00eb klim\u00eb besimi.
Kujton detajet
Ai q\u00eb dashuron nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb. Ai vet\u00ebm kujton. Nj\u00eb fraz\u00eb q\u00eb ke th\u00ebn\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht, nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb prek, m\u00ebnyra se si reagon kur je e stresuar. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm detaje. Jan\u00eb shenja interesi dhe lidhjeje t\u00eb thella. Jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk duken t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr \u2013 por do t\u00eb thot\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai ju p\u00ebrfshin n\u00eb planet e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen.
Kur dikush ju do v\u00ebrtet, ai jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb jeton t\u00eb tashmen me ju, por edhe ju p\u00ebrfshin n\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen e tij. Do t\u00eb shihni q\u00eb ai flet p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen duke p\u00ebrdorur \u201d ne \u201d n\u00eb vend t\u00eb \u201d Un\u00eb \u201c. Ai konsultohet me ju, merr parasysh mendimin tuaj dhe b\u00ebn plane q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb dyve. Pa pasur nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni sqarime, do t\u00eb ndiheni sikur keni nj\u00eb vend n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. N\u00eb afat t\u00eb gjat\u00eb.
Dashurin\u00eb e shpreh me veprime
\u201cT\u00eb dua\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, por nuk mjafton m\u00eb vete. Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shihet n\u00eb veprime: n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e tij kur ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, n\u00eb mir\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, n\u00eb stabilitetin q\u00eb tregon me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. N\u00ebse ai ju zgjedh \u00e7do dit\u00eb, pa buj\u00eb, por me stabilitet dhe respekt, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb. Nuk keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr konfirmime: dashuria e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranishme dhe e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb bindur apo p\u00ebr t\u2019u bindur . \u00cbsht\u00eb ndjenja seje aty ku duhet t\u00eb jesh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dashuria nuk shprehet gjithmon\u00eb me gjeste spektakolare ose deklarata mbres\u00ebl\u00ebn\u00ebse. Shpesh, jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e thjeshta, t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb kuptimin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. Jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb se si ndihet dikush. Sipas psikolog\u00ebve, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet i dashuruar nuk mund t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht ndjenjat e tij me fjal\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, e v\u00ebrteta shihet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":58139,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-58140","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n