Aktori i njohur shqiptar, Elvis Pupa, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb akuzuar jav\u00ebn e kaluar nga autoritetet australiane p\u00ebr kultivim t\u00eb kanabisit, ka reaguar s\u00ebrish n\u00eb rrjetet sociale me an\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb videoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pupa tha se nuk i interesojn\u00eb mendimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe nuk i ka borxh askujt.
\u201cT\u00eb gjith\u00eb synojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb perfekt. Un\u00eb kam lindur n\u00eb fund t\u00eb viteve \u201970 dhe t\u00eb jetoje f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb t\u00ebnde n\u00eb vitet \u201980\u2026 obobo\u2026 Gjithmon\u00eb na thonin: \u2018Mos fol, ha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb kemi vendosur ne p\u00ebrpara. Por at\u00ebhere lale, s\u2019kishe shanse t\u00eb gaboheshe, mos t\u00eb guxoje t\u00eb gaboheshe, sepse at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ishe njeri, ishe turpi i familjes, turpi i fisit, turpi i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, turpi i shkoll\u00ebs dhe turpi i lagjes. Si rrjedhoj\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit thonin: \u2018Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kalamani im. Nuk e kam edukuar k\u00ebshtu un\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb ishin perfeksionist. Ata po. Dhe jo t\u00eb llojit q\u00eb thjesht ta mbajn\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb past\u00ebr, se ajo dihet q\u00eb kur vinin komshinjt\u00eb, vinte prova e dy gishtave, q\u00eb nuk kishte laborator q\u00eb ja kalonte testimit t\u00eb tyre se kur ishte hera e fundit q\u00eb i kishe marr\u00eb pluhurat n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Perfeksionizimi ishte i tipit q\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb ta thoje gabim, prind\u00ebrit nuk t\u00eb flisnin me goj\u00eb nj\u00eb jav\u00eb, madje nuk t\u00eb shihnin me sy. Kalonin af\u00ebr teje\u2026 Gjithmon\u00eb thoja: \u2018Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb shkelin. Kalojn\u00eb kaq perfekt anash sikur un\u00eb nuk ekzistoj\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E k\u00ebshtu ti rritesh me iden\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb rritesh perfekt. Duhet t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh si\u00e7 duhet dhe t\u00eb sillesh si\u00e7 duhet. N\u00eb fund nuk p\u00ebrfundon njeri, por nj\u00eb robot me ankth. Perfeksionizmi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb virtyt. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb helm emocional, po me em\u00ebr trendi. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ambicie v\u00eblla. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sukses, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb z\u00eb brenda kok\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb: \u2018Ti nuk je duke b\u00ebr\u00eb akoma mjaftuesh\u00ebm\u2019, pavar\u00ebsisht se ti ke dh\u00ebn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, edhe shpirtin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ironia \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb nuk na urrenin, e kund\u00ebrta. Ata donin q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ishim perfekt q\u00eb bota t\u00eb na vler\u00ebsonte, mos t\u00eb na shkelte me k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Po bota prap\u00eb t\u00eb shkel me k\u00ebmb\u00eb dhe e b\u00ebn me buz\u00ebqeshje, t\u00eb shkel me klas.
Nuk e them k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr miratim, as nuk m\u00eb intereson mendimi juaj, sepse jeta ime personale \u00ebsht\u00eb personale. Nuk m\u00eb keni borxh asgj\u00eb e as un\u00eb ju. Aspak!\u201d, u shpreh Pupa n\u00eb videomesazhin e tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Aktori i njohur shqiptar, Elvis Pupa, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb akuzuar jav\u00ebn e kaluar nga autoritetet australiane p\u00ebr kultivim t\u00eb kanabisit, ka reaguar s\u00ebrish n\u00eb rrjetet sociale me an\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb videoje. Pupa tha se nuk i interesojn\u00eb mendimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe nuk i ka borxh askujt. \u201cT\u00eb gjith\u00eb synojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb perfekt. Un\u00eb kam […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59555,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-showbiz"],"yoast_head":"\n