Nj\u00eb mesazh i ndar\u00eb nga opinionistja Neda Balluku ka ndezur nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale. Ajo, p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb videoje t\u00eb realizuar nga Parku i Liqenit n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, u shpreh e revoltuar ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb ua besojn\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve gjysh\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cA ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos ia lini prind\u00ebrve tuaj kalamajt\u00eb se ua nxit\u00eb jet\u00ebn?\u201d, tha Neda. \u201cPo ua merrni edhe ato pak vite q\u00eb iu kan\u00eb ngelur p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar sepse kan\u00eb vuajtur me prind\u00ebrit e tyre, familjet e tyre, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebr, pa asnj\u00eb lloj mund\u00ebsie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deklarata u shp\u00ebrnda me shpejt\u00ebsi n\u00eb rrjet dhe n\u00eb llogarin\u00eb zyrtare t\u00eb Prive n\u00eb Instagram, duke ndar\u00eb publikun n\u00eb dy kampe. Shum\u00eb komentues e mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebn Ned\u00ebn p\u00ebr sinqeritetin dhe guximin, por po aq t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ishin edhe ata q\u00eb e konsideruan k\u00ebt\u00eb qasje t\u00eb shk\u00ebputur nga realiteti i p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm i shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb familjeve shqiptare.
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb polemik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe gazetarja e njohur Sonila Me\u00e7o, e cila ka reaguar me nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe prek\u00ebs, ku rr\u00ebfen p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e saj si n\u00ebn\u00eb, gazetare dhe pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb sistemi q\u00eb \u2013 si\u00e7 thot\u00eb ajo \u2013 ka privatizuar plot\u00ebsisht barr\u00ebn e prind\u00ebrimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cF\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pasuri publike, por rritja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb si nj\u00eb \u2018nd\u00ebshkim\u2019 privat\u201d, shkruan Me\u00e7o. \u201cTep\u00ebr cinike t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh t\u00eb panjohur n\u00eb rrug\u00eb e t\u2019i p\u00ebrcaktosh si gjysh\u00ebr \u2018t\u00eb d\u00ebnuar\u2019 me rritje nip\u00ebrish e mbesash.\u201d
Ajo thekson se shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr nuk kan\u00eb luksin t\u00eb zgjedhin ndryshe: \u201cShum\u00eb nuk i lejon jeta. Ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb: nuk i lejon sistemi. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb t\u00eb masim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn kut morali, kur rrug\u00ebt q\u00eb ndjekim jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb ndryshme.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gazetarja rikujton edhe koh\u00ebn kur, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb profesionit n\u00eb media, ishte e detyruar t\u00eb punonte pa orar dhe pa ndihm\u00eb:
\u201cE kam provuar mbi shpin\u00eb, kur puna n\u00eb media m\u00eb mbante pa orar\u2026 Prind\u00ebrit e tim shoqi ishin shp\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb re, q\u00eb vajza t\u00eb rritej me dashuri e kujdes.\u201d
Sipas saj, realiteti i shum\u00eb familjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, madje i pam\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm. \u201cKur punon nga m\u00ebngjesi n\u00eb dark\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rrog\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mjafton, kur \u00e7erdhja \u00ebsht\u00eb plot, dadoja e pap\u00ebrballueshme dhe shteti nuk ekziston\u2026 \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn? U thua gjysh\u00ebrve: \u2018Ma mbani dhe k\u00ebsaj here!\u2019 Dhe ata i mbajn\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me\u00e7o pranon q\u00eb gjysh\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb lodhur, por thekson se problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tek prind\u00ebrit, por tek shteti:
\u201cJam dakord se gjysh\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb lodhur, por jo vet\u00ebm nga rritja e detyruar e nip\u00ebrve dhe mbesave, por nga nj\u00eb sistem q\u00eb i trajton si barr\u00eb dhe jo si pasuri.\u201d
Ajo kritikon munges\u00ebn e politikave sociale p\u00ebr familjen dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, duke shtuar:
\u201cShteti s\u2019ofron kujdes real p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl. \u00c7erdhet dhe kopshtet publike nuk i p\u00ebrmbushin nevojat, jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbipopulluara, nd\u00ebrsa ato private jan\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrballueshme p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn.\u201d
N\u00eb fund t\u00eb reagimit t\u00eb saj, Me\u00e7o sjell nj\u00eb reflektim t\u00eb fort\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNuk ka politika q\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb me strehimin, kujdesin ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, p\u00ebrkrahjen psikologjike apo fleksibilitetin n\u00eb pun\u00eb. T\u00eb b\u00ebhesh prind sot \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb private n\u00eb nj\u00eb shtet q\u00eb s\u2019ka asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi publike.\u201d
Reagimi i saj u mir\u00ebprit gjer\u00ebsisht nga ndjek\u00ebs t\u00eb shumt\u00eb q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb social dhe ekonomik, ku gjysh\u00ebrit shpesh jan\u00eb hallka e vetme q\u00eb mban t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb re.
Po ju, \u00e7far\u00eb mendoni? \u00cbsht\u00eb munges\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie ndaj brezit t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr, apo munges\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahjeje ndaj brezit t\u00eb ri? Na tregoni mendimin tuaj n\u00eb komente.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb mesazh i ndar\u00eb nga opinionistja Neda Balluku ka ndezur nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale. Ajo, p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb videoje t\u00eb realizuar nga Parku i Liqenit n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, u shpreh e revoltuar ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb ua besojn\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve gjysh\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre. \u201cA ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos ia lini prind\u00ebrve tuaj […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59587,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59588","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-showbiz"],"yoast_head":"\n