Stereotipet kulturore kan\u00eb sugjeruar prej koh\u00ebsh se grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prira t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie romantike, t\u00eb martohen dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb familje. Kjo linj\u00eb e t\u00eb menduarit n\u00ebnkupton se p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, t\u00eb qenit vet\u00ebm mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet si m\u00eb problematik sesa p\u00ebr burrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb kontrast, burrat shpesh p\u00ebrshkruhen si m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me jet\u00ebn beqare, duke gjetur p\u00ebrmbushje n\u00eb pun\u00eb, hobi dhe pavar\u00ebsi personale.
Por sa p\u00ebrputhen k\u00ebto stereotipe me realitetin?
Nj\u00eb studim i publikuar s\u00eb fundmi n\u00eb revist\u00ebn shkencore Social Psychological and Personality Science nga psikolog\u00ebt Elaine Hoan dhe Geoff MacDonald t\u00eb Universitetit t\u00eb Torontos, sfidon bindjet tradicionale mbi rolet gjinore dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet. Studimi me titull \u201cMotrat po e b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00eb: Dallimet gjinore n\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien e beqar\u00ebve\u201d analizoi t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat e mbi 6,000 individ\u00ebve beqar\u00eb, t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs mbi 18 vje\u00e7 (mosha mesatare: 32 vje\u00e7), t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb 10 studime t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rezultatet e studimit treguan se grat\u00eb beqare raportonin nivele m\u00eb t\u00eb larta mir\u00ebqenieje n\u00eb krahasim me burrat beqar\u00eb. Ato ishin m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura me statusin e tyre si beqare, ndjenin m\u00eb pak nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ngutshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb partner romantik dhe p\u00ebrjetonin m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale.
N\u00eb krahasim me burrat, grat\u00eb beqare treguan nj\u00eb lidhje m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs personale dhe ishin m\u00eb t\u00eb prira ta shijonin pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre. Edhe n\u00eb rastet kur ishin n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie romantike, grat\u00eb raportuan k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb krahasim me burrat n\u00eb lidhje, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb aspektin seksual dhe emocional \u2013 por jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb nga jeta personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ky studim i fundit kontribuon n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim m\u00eb t\u00eb balancuar dhe t\u00eb bazuar n\u00eb prova t\u00eb jet\u00ebs beqare p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy gjinit\u00eb. Stereotipi se grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruara p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe burrat jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur vet\u00ebm, nuk gjen mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat shkencore. N\u00eb fakt, \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht e kund\u00ebrta: grat\u00eb, mesatarisht, ndihen m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetme, e shijojn\u00eb pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe ndihen t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushura edhe pa nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie romantike.
Ky zbulim fton p\u00ebr rishikim t\u00eb perceptimeve tradicionale mbi dashurin\u00eb, martes\u00ebn dhe nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr partneritet, duke hapur rrug\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kuptim m\u00eb t\u00eb nuancuar t\u00eb mir\u00ebqenies njer\u00ebzore p\u00ebrtej statusit civil.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Stereotipet kulturore kan\u00eb sugjeruar prej koh\u00ebsh se grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prira t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie romantike, t\u00eb martohen dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb familje. Kjo linj\u00eb e t\u00eb menduarit n\u00ebnkupton se p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, t\u00eb qenit vet\u00ebm mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet si m\u00eb problematik sesa p\u00ebr burrat. N\u00eb kontrast, burrat shpesh p\u00ebrshkruhen si m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me jet\u00ebn beqare, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59748,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-59749","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n