N\u00eb epok\u00ebn e takimeve dixhitale, ku marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet shpesh lindin dhe zhvillohen n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet aplikacioneve dhe rrjeteve sociale, po shfaqen forma t\u00eb reja t\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pasoja psikologjike tek t\u00eb dy pal\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cghosting\u201d \u2013 praktika e nd\u00ebrprerjes s\u00eb papritur t\u00eb \u00e7do komunikimi me dik\u00eb, pa asnj\u00eb shpjegim \u2013 dhe \u201cbreadcrumbing\u201d, ku dikush d\u00ebrgon sinjale interesi t\u00eb her\u00ebpashershme, pa pasur q\u00ebllim real p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje.
Nj\u00eb studim i fundit i publikuar n\u00eb Deviant Behavior, i udh\u00ebhequr nga studiueset Alexandra Cobzeanu dhe Cornelia M\u0103irean, ka hedhur drit\u00eb mbi arsyet psikologjike q\u00eb fshihen pas k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve. Duke analizuar p\u00ebrgjigjet e 578 t\u00eb rinjve rumun\u00eb t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 18-27 vje\u00e7, studiuesit zbuluan se ata q\u00eb kishin p\u00ebrjetuar m\u00eb par\u00eb ghosting apo breadcrumbing kishin m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb silleshin n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, duke krijuar nj\u00eb \u201ccik\u00ebl negativ\u201d t\u00eb sjelljeve dixhitale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kush ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb \u201czhduket\u201d?
Rezultatet treguan se:
Ata q\u00eb kishin p\u00ebrjetuar ghosting ishin duksh\u00ebm m\u00eb t\u00eb prirur ta p\u00ebrdornin vet\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb praktik\u00eb.
P\u00ebrdoruesit e breadcrumbing shpesh e kishin p\u00ebrdorur k\u00ebt\u00eb taktik\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb her\u00eb, duke krijuar modele t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritura sjelljeje.
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb angazhohen n\u00eb k\u00ebto sjellje priren t\u00eb ken\u00eb nivele m\u00eb t\u00eb larta t\u00eb mosangazhimit moral, agresionit online dhe shqet\u00ebsimit psikologjik, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb depresionin, ankthin dhe stresin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mosha m\u00eb e re lidhej me nj\u00eb prirje m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe drejt breadcrumbing dhe viktimizimit nga kjo praktik\u00eb.
Pse njer\u00ebzit nuk p\u00ebrballen me nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb?
Sipas ekspert\u00ebve, disa nga arsyet kryesore p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb:
Frika nga p\u00ebrballja emocionale ose ndjenja e fajit.
Mungesa e aft\u00ebsive komunikative p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb.Ndikimi i p\u00ebrvojave t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme, ku individi ka qen\u00eb viktim\u00eb dhe tani e riprodhon t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn sjellje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Normalizimi i distanc\u00ebs dixhitale, q\u00eb e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb shmangien sesa ballafaqimin.
Nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb m\u00eb e gjer\u00eb
Studiuesit paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb se k\u00ebto sjellje nuk jan\u00eb thjesht simptoma t\u00eb sjelljeve individuale, por pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb kulture m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb mosangazhimit dhe shmangies n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, ata theksojn\u00eb se t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat jan\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuara n\u00eb nj\u00eb most\u00ebr t\u00eb re dhe kulturore specifike, \u00e7ka do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha grupmoshat apo kontekste t\u00eb tjera shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet?
Psikoterapist\u00ebt rekomandojn\u00eb rritjen e vet\u00ebdijes emocionale, trajnimin e aft\u00ebsive komunikative dhe nd\u00ebrprerjen e cikleve t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs dixhitale. T\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur biseda t\u00eb ndershme dhe t\u00eb hapura \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u2013 qoft\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn fizike apo n\u00eb at\u00eb virtuale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb epok\u00ebn e takimeve dixhitale, ku marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet shpesh lindin dhe zhvillohen n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet aplikacioneve dhe rrjeteve sociale, po shfaqen forma t\u00eb reja t\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pasoja psikologjike tek t\u00eb dy pal\u00ebt. Nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cghosting\u201d \u2013 praktika e nd\u00ebrprerjes s\u00eb papritur t\u00eb \u00e7do komunikimi me dik\u00eb, pa asnj\u00eb shpjegim \u2013 dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-59924","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n