Pes\u00eb arsyet kryesore q\u00eb i shtyjn\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb shtiren gjat\u00eb seksit, sipas nj\u00eb studimi psikologjik me 650 pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb nga skenat m\u00eb t\u00eb famshme t\u00eb kinemas\u00eb \u2013 ajo nga komedia romantike \u201cWhen Harry Met Sally\u201d \u2013 ka b\u00ebr\u00eb histori pik\u00ebrisht sepse trajton nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb sikletshme: grat\u00eb, jo rrall\u00ebher\u00eb, shtiren sikur po p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb orgazm\u00eb. Dhe sipas shkenc\u00ebs, ato nuk e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb nga kapri\u00e7ot, por p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb thella dhe shpesh t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara.
Nj\u00eb studim i kryer nga psikologu Peter Jonason n\u00eb Universitetin e Sidneit Per\u00ebndimor n\u00eb Australi ka hedhur drit\u00eb mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb kampioni me 650 persona, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt u pyet\u00ebn p\u00ebr arsyet pse mund t\u00eb simulojn\u00eb nj\u00eb orgazm\u00eb. Rezultatet u p\u00ebrqendruan n\u00eb pes\u00eb arsye kryesore q\u00eb, sipas studiuesve, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshmet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur egon e partnerit
Arsyeja m\u00eb e p\u00ebrhapur \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb partnerit t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb me performanc\u00ebn e tij seksuale. Grat\u00eb duan t\u00eb ruajn\u00eb harmonin\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift dhe t\u00eb japin sinjalin se gjith\u00e7ka po shkon mir\u00eb, edhe kur realisht k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia mungon.
P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb m\u00ebrzis\u00eb seksuale
Kur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale b\u00ebhet monotone apo zhg\u00ebnjyese, disa gra e p\u00ebrdorin orgazm\u00ebn e rreme si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrfunduar m\u00eb shpejt aktin, duke shmangur sikletin e nd\u00ebrprerjes s\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur pasionin n\u00eb \u00e7ift
Simulimi i k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb si nj\u00eb ngacmim psikologjik p\u00ebr partnerin \u2013 duke nxitur m\u00eb shum\u00eb pasion dhe p\u00ebrfshirje. N\u00eb disa raste, grat\u00eb shpresojn\u00eb se duke u sjell\u00eb sikur jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura, mund t\u00eb ndihen v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb tilla.
P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur konfliktin pas nj\u00eb raporti t\u00eb dob\u00ebt
Pas nj\u00eb takimi zhg\u00ebnjyes seksual, disa gra preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cruajn\u00eb paqen\u201d n\u00eb \u00e7ift p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb paraqitjeje pozitive, edhe n\u00ebse p\u00ebrbrenda nuk jan\u00eb aspak t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura. Nj\u00eb orgazm\u00eb e rreme, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb strategji sociale sesa fizike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur planifikojn\u00eb t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb partnerin
Arsyeja m\u00eb e debatueshme e identifikuar n\u00eb studim \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimi i simulimit si \u201ckamuflazh\u201d p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb po ftohet. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb shk\u00ebputura emocionalisht nga partneri dhe mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shtiren p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur fasad\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos ngritur dyshime.
E v\u00ebrteta e heshtur mes \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00ebve
Ky studim ngre pyetje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb dhe e komunikojm\u00eb seksualitetin n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Shtirja e orgazm\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb \u201cg\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr e bardh\u00eb\u201d \u2013 shpesh \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pasqyrim i dinamikave t\u00eb thella emocionale, presioneve sociale dhe munges\u00ebs s\u00eb komunikimit t\u00eb hapur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb vend t\u00eb faj\u00ebsimit, ky fenomen mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri, dialog dhe mir\u00ebkuptim n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Sepse, si\u00e7 thot\u00eb edhe vet\u00eb studimi, jo \u00e7do klithm\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi \u2013 dhe ndoshta jo \u00e7do heshtje do t\u00eb thot\u00eb munges\u00eb dashurie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pes\u00eb arsyet kryesore q\u00eb i shtyjn\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb shtiren gjat\u00eb seksit, sipas nj\u00eb studimi psikologjik me 650 pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb nga skenat m\u00eb t\u00eb famshme t\u00eb kinemas\u00eb \u2013 ajo nga komedia romantike \u201cWhen Harry Met Sally\u201d \u2013 ka b\u00ebr\u00eb histori pik\u00ebrisht sepse trajton nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb sikletshme: grat\u00eb, jo rrall\u00ebher\u00eb, shtiren sikur po p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb orgazm\u00eb. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59979,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59977","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"yoast_head":"\n