Ekspert\u00ebt e sh\u00ebndetit mendor theksojn\u00eb se narcisist\u00ebt me sjellje t\u00eb dyfishta mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb d\u00ebme t\u00eb m\u00ebdha psikologjike, nd\u00ebrsa mbajn\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh publik t\u00eb padiskutuesh\u00ebm. Ja 7 shenja paralajm\u00ebruese q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se mund t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00eb narcisist manipulues:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bresh\u00ebri emocionesh n\u00eb fillim
N\u00eb fazat e para t\u00eb lidhjes, gjith\u00e7ka duket e jasht\u00ebzakonshme: komplimente t\u00eb vazhdueshme, deklarata dashurie si \u201cnuk kam njohur kurr\u00eb dik\u00eb si ty\u201d, dhe ndjesia se jeni krijuar p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht romanc\u00eb\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb taktik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar var\u00ebsi emocionale. Kur kjo faz\u00eb p\u00ebrfundon, fillon zhg\u00ebnjimi: nj\u00eb ndryshim i papritur i sjelljes.
P\u00ebrfshirja e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar xhelozi
Manipuluesit shpesh p\u00ebrdorin teknik\u00ebn e \u201ctregut t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb\u201d, duke p\u00ebrmendur njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar pasiguri. Mund t\u00eb thon\u00eb se dikush tjet\u00ebr \u201c\u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb i\/e mir\u00eb\u201d se ju, nd\u00ebrsa kur p\u00ebrballen, ju akuzojn\u00eb p\u00ebr xhelozi ose paranoj\u00eb. Kjo sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb shpesh nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar dhe ulur vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin tuaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb faqe p\u00ebr publikun, nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi
N\u00eb publik, jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, simpatik\u00eb, t\u00eb qeshur. N\u00eb privat, t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, indiferent\u00eb, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe mizor\u00eb. Ky kontrast l\u00eb \u2018viktim\u00ebn\u2019 t\u00eb ndjehet e izoluar dhe e pakuptuar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Askush nuk e beson, sepse \u201cai\/ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq i\/e sjellsh\u00ebm\/sjellshme\u201d. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga format m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda t\u00eb manipulimit emocional
Kur b\u00ebn t\u00eb dyshosh n\u00eb mendjen t\u00ebnde
Gaslighting \u00ebsht\u00eb kur dikush mohon q\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb apo b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka, ndon\u00ebse ju e mbani mend qart\u00eb. Ju thon\u00eb se \u201ce keni marr\u00eb gabim\u201d, \u201ce ekzagjeroni\u201d apo \u201cjeni shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm\u201d. Me koh\u00eb, viktima nis t\u00eb dyshoj\u00eb n\u00eb perceptimin e saj, duke humbur sensin e realitetit dhe vet\u00ebbesimin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fyerje t\u00eb kamufluara si shaka
Kur dikush b\u00ebn komente fyese p\u00ebr ju p\u00ebr pamjen, inteligjenc\u00ebn, miqt\u00eb tuaj\u00a0 dhe i paraqet si \u201cshaka\u201d apo \u201cngacmime t\u00eb \u00ebmbla\u201d, kini kujdes. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb e ul\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb goditur vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin tuaj, sidomos kur ndodh n\u00eb prani t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Shakat\u00eb q\u00eb ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni keq, nuk jan\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb pafajshme.
Izolimi nga miqt\u00eb dhe familja
Manipuluesit p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019ju shk\u00ebpusin nga rrjeti juaj i mb\u00ebshtetjes. Duke kritikuar miqt\u00eb dhe familjar\u00ebt tuaj, duke e shtyr\u00eb iden\u00eb se \u201caskush tjet\u00ebr nuk ju kupton si ata\u201d, ata krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb var\u00ebsi emocionale. Kjo form\u00eb izolimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshmet dhe lidhet ngusht\u00eb me r\u00ebnien e sh\u00ebndetit mendor dhe rritjen e konfliktit n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.
Faleminderit e rreme<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pasi largohet viktima, manipuluesi shpesh kthehet me fjal\u00eb pendese, premtime ndryshimi dhe \u201cdashuri t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetshme\u201d. Por k\u00ebto jan\u00eb mjete p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikthyer kontrollin, jo shenja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta pendese. Psikolog\u00ebt bien dakord se strategjia m\u00eb e sigurt \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrprerja e plot\u00eb e kontaktit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ekspert\u00ebt e sh\u00ebndetit mendor theksojn\u00eb se narcisist\u00ebt me sjellje t\u00eb dyfishta mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb d\u00ebme t\u00eb m\u00ebdha psikologjike, nd\u00ebrsa mbajn\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh publik t\u00eb padiskutuesh\u00ebm. Ja 7 shenja paralajm\u00ebruese q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se mund t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00eb narcisist manipulues: Bresh\u00ebri emocionesh n\u00eb fillim N\u00eb fazat e para t\u00eb lidhjes, gjith\u00e7ka duket e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":60522,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-60523","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n