T\u00eb sillni nj\u00eb mik t\u00eb ri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe qeni juaj, pa asnj\u00eb hezitim, e \u201cp\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u201d duke futur hund\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb shum\u00eb intime? Po, \u00ebsht\u00eb sikletshme, dhe shpesh kthehet n\u00eb momentin m\u00eb t\u00eb diskutuar t\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 vet\u00eb qenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe pse kjo sjellje mund t\u00eb duket e turpshme p\u00ebr ne, p\u00ebr qenin \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb natyrale p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb tij. Nuhatja e pjes\u00ebve intime nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as munges\u00eb edukate dhe as munges\u00eb trajnimi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb instinkt i thell\u00eb biologjik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pse ndodh kjo? Ja \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb shkenca:
1. Superfuqia e nuhatjes
Qent\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb nuhatje q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb deri n\u00eb 100.000 her\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se e njeriut. Ata \u201clexojn\u00eb\u201d nj\u00eb individ n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet aromave q\u00eb trupi l\u00ebshon, dhe pjesa e poshtme \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb me p\u00ebrqendrim t\u00eb lart\u00eb gj\u00ebndrash aromatike.
2. Instinkti i tuf\u00ebs
N\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tyre, qent\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin duke nuhatur pjes\u00ebt intime. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ritual njohjeje p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien, statusin dhe q\u00ebllimet. E nj\u00ebjta logjik\u00eb aplikohet dhe tek njer\u00ebzit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Mbledhje informacioni
Gj\u00ebndrat anale te qent\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb pasaport\u00eb aromatike t\u00eb plot\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gjendjen sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, hormonale dhe emocionale. Njer\u00ebzit, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, l\u00ebshojn\u00eb aroma p\u00ebrmes gj\u00ebndrave q\u00eb p\u00ebr qenin jan\u00eb t\u00eb lexueshme si \u201cinformacion i fresk\u00ebt\u201d.
4. Thjesht nj\u00eb \u201cP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!\u201d
Ekspert\u00ebt sugjerojn\u00eb se p\u00ebr nj\u00eb qen, ky veprim \u00ebsht\u00eb sa i thjesht\u00eb, aq edhe i zakonsh\u00ebm sa nj\u00eb shtr\u00ebngim duarsh te njer\u00ebzit. P\u00ebr ta, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb nisur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb re shoq\u00ebrore.
A mund t\u00eb parandalohet kjo sjellje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po, por k\u00ebrkon pak durim dhe ushtrime t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritura. Ja disa k\u00ebshilla praktike:
Jepni urdhra t\u00eb qart\u00eb si \u201culu\u201d apo \u201cprit\u201d kur dikush i afrohet.
Shp\u00ebrqendrojeni me nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr apo ushqim t\u00eb preferuar, sapo t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb interes p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201ceksploruar\u201d.
P\u00ebrdorni qaforen gjat\u00eb prezantimeve t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kufizuar l\u00ebvizjet n\u00eb fillim.
Shp\u00ebrbleni sjelljen e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb forcuar sjelljet e d\u00ebshiruara.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u00eb sillni nj\u00eb mik t\u00eb ri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe qeni juaj, pa asnj\u00eb hezitim, e \u201cp\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u201d duke futur hund\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb shum\u00eb intime? Po, \u00ebsht\u00eb sikletshme, dhe shpesh kthehet n\u00eb momentin m\u00eb t\u00eb diskutuar t\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 vet\u00eb qenit. Edhe pse kjo sjellje mund t\u00eb duket e turpshme p\u00ebr ne, p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":61357,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-61358","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n