Zgjohesh, ndez telefonin dhe p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb pish kafen\u00eb e par\u00eb, ke par\u00eb tre sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura n\u00eb Instagram, dy foto pushimesh n\u00eb vende ekzotike dhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb duket sikur po jeton nj\u00eb romanc\u00eb ideale. Diku mes gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, fillon t\u00eb ndihesh i pap\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm, jo sepse jeta jote \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe, por sepse mendon se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq josh\u00ebse sa e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse ndihesh k\u00ebshtu, nuk je vet\u00ebm. Je thjesht\u2026 njeri.
Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb manifest p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar pozitivisht me \u00e7do kusht. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikthyer v\u00ebmendjen tek vetja. Sepse aty, n\u00eb veten t\u00ebnde, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb duhet p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndier m\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Realiteti pas ekranit: po shikon pamjen, jo prapasken\u00ebn
Rrjetet sociale nuk jan\u00eb realitet, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhje e kujdesshme e momenteve m\u00eb t\u00eb mira. Nuk shohim en\u00ebt e palara pas m\u00ebngjesit perfekt, as debatet pas nj\u00eb fotoje t\u00eb lumtur me partnerin. Por jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde e njeh n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi \u2013 me t\u00eb mirat, t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat dhe t\u00eb zakonshmet, dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb po e krahason me nj\u00eb vitrin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh: Sa her\u00eb ndihesh i vog\u00ebl p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u201csukseseve\u201d t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, kujto veten se po sheh vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fragment, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb historin\u00eb.
Ndalo s\u00eb konsumuar jet\u00ebt e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, fillo t\u00eb jetosh t\u00ebnden
N\u00ebse kalon or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra duke par\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme t\u00eb ndihesh sikur je pas. Krahasimi b\u00ebhet zakon, nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb matur veten. Por jeta nuk matet me at\u00eb q\u00eb sheh n\u00eb ekrane.
\u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh:
B\u00ebj nj\u00eb detoks 48-or\u00ebsh nga rrjetet sociale<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndiq vet\u00ebm llogarit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb realisht
Vendos limite kohore p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdorimin e aplikacioneve
Ktheje fokusin te vetja dhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kontrollosh
Fillimi i vog\u00ebl: rregullo dollapin e er\u00ebzave
Nuk ke pse t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb resort p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndier mir\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, ndjesia e qet\u00ebsis\u00eb vjen nga rregulli n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat e vogla. Po, si p\u00ebr shembull n\u00eb nj\u00eb dollap t\u00eb organizuar mir\u00eb.
Provo k\u00ebto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kontrollo datat e skadenc\u00ebs dhe hidh ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar
Vendos etiketa dhe organizo sipas p\u00ebrdorimit
B\u00ebj nj\u00eb list\u00eb me receta q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb provosh
Renditja n\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebnd t\u00eb vog\u00ebl t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, shpesh jep ndjesin\u00eb e kontrollit mbi jet\u00ebn. Dhe kjo ndjesi p\u00ebrhapet.
Krijo mat\u00ebsin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb suksesit
Kur jeton sipas standardeve t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, gjithmon\u00eb ndihesh pas. Por suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb personal. Pyet veten:Kur ndihesh m\u00eb i qet\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb jep ndjenj\u00ebn e p\u00ebrmbushjes?
\u00c7far\u00eb e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr ty?
P\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb milion ndjek\u00ebs. P\u00ebr ty mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebngjes i qet\u00eb n\u00eb ballkon me nj\u00eb filxhan kafe. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq e vlefshme.
Jeta jote meriton v\u00ebmendjen t\u00ebnde
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb ndalosh s\u00eb krahasuari. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje. Nj\u00eb vendim p\u00ebr t\u2019i kthyer syt\u00eb nga vetja dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb investuar koh\u00eb e kujdes n\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb ke. Nuk ke pse t\u00eb jetosh m\u00eb bukur. Mjafton ta jetosh m\u00eb shum\u00eb si vetja.
N\u00eb fund, nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb mungojn\u00eb fare krahasimet. Do t\u00eb t\u00eb mungoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm koha q\u00eb nuk ia dhe vetes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Zgjohesh, ndez telefonin dhe p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb pish kafen\u00eb e par\u00eb, ke par\u00eb tre sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura n\u00eb Instagram, dy foto pushimesh n\u00eb vende ekzotike dhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb duket sikur po jeton nj\u00eb romanc\u00eb ideale. Diku mes gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, fillon t\u00eb ndihesh i pap\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm, jo sepse jeta jote \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe, por sepse mendon […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":61615,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-61616","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"yoast_head":"\n